In a world often divided by borders and ideologies, a small town in upstate New York has emerged as a beacon of hope and humanity. Stone Ridge, nestled in the picturesque Hudson Valley, has become a sanctuary for Afghan refugee families seeking a new life after fleeing the Taliban’s oppressive regime. This heartwarming story showcases the power of community and the transformative impact of neighborly kindness.
A Call to Action: Welcoming Refugees with Open Arms
The journey began with a simple yet powerful letter to the editor in the local Kingston Freeman newspaper. Harv Hilowitz, an author and grant writer, penned an impassioned plea urging his fellow residents to embrace a “monumental patriotic and humanitarian effort” by welcoming and resettling Afghan refugee families. His words struck a chord with Susan and Paul Sprachman, a couple who had served in the Peace Corps in Afghanistan decades earlier.
We said, ‘Aha! This is exactly what we’d like to do.’
Susan Sprachman, retired social policy researcher and co-chair of the Afghan Circle of the Hudson Valley
Inspired by Hilowitz’s call to action, the Sprachmans rallied their neighbors and formed the Afghan Circle of the Hudson Valley, an informal group of volunteers dedicated to supporting refugee families. The response was overwhelming, with community members eagerly offering assistance in the form of housing, furniture, clothing, and food.
Building a Foundation of Support
The Afghan Circle quickly got to work, preparing to welcome two refugee families to their town. They secured housing, collecting furniture and household goods from generous donors. Local businesses, such as Haddad’s Middle Eastern Groceries, provided familiar foods to help the families feel more at home. Doctors and dentists offered free or discounted services, while lawyers assisted with asylum applications.
Never underestimate what neighbors can do for neighbors.
Susan Griss, educational consultant and member of the Afghan Circle
The outpouring of support was a testament to the community’s unwavering commitment to helping those in need. As Gary Jacobson, a social worker and co-chair of the circle, aptly put it, watching the town come together was like “watching a beautiful dance unfold on stage.”
Navigating Cultural Differences with Compassion
As the Afghan families settled into their new homes, the Stone Ridge community embraced them with open arms. However, navigating cultural differences required patience, understanding, and a willingness to learn from one another. The volunteers quickly adapted, respecting Afghan customs and traditions while gently guiding the families through the intricacies of American life.
Hospitality is the pillar of the culture. If you say, ‘that’s a beautiful watch.’ They demand that you have to have it. You have to practice compliment avoidance.
Paul Sprachman, volunteer and Dari speaker
Despite the occasional cultural bumps, the bond between the refugees and their adoptive community grew stronger with each passing day. The families were grateful for the unwavering support and kindness they received, while the volunteers found immense fulfillment in the opportunity to make a meaningful difference in the lives of others.
A Shining Example of Human Kindness
The story of Stone Ridge and its Afghan refugee families serves as a powerful reminder of the impact that a united community can have. In a world often marred by division and mistrust, this small town has proven that compassion and empathy can transcend borders, languages, and cultural barriers.
You gave us the opportunity to experience something we’d otherwise would never have – to truly help people. We are very happy you decided to trust us and get on that airplane to NYC. Thank you. You owe us nothing. Your success, however you measure it, is our reward.
Gary Jacobson, social worker and co-chair of the Afghan Circle, to the refugee families
As the refugee families continue to build their new lives in Stone Ridge, their success stories serve as a testament to the power of human kindness. Saida Faqirzada, a former director of a women’s business center in Kabul, now runs two thriving businesses in her adoptive town. Her younger sister, once faced with the prospect of being denied an education under Taliban rule, now dreams of becoming a lawyer or a pilot.
The story of Stone Ridge and its Afghan refugee families is a heartwarming tale of hope, resilience, and the unbreakable spirit of human compassion. It serves as a shining example of what can be achieved when a community comes together to welcome the stranger, extend a helping hand, and build bridges of understanding. In a world that often seems divided, this small town reminds us that love and kindness have the power to unite us all.
